Experiential loops and fences are major themes in the M5 materials. I am always receiving emails from readers who get frustrated by their seeming inability to break a loop quickly and frustration sets in. Those for whom M5 is written should keep in mind that they are reading segments composed by a Final. A Final’s perspective is quite different than any other incarnation of that Higher Self, as it should be. Each Higher Self has only one Final. Next are the Dominants which may number 3 or 4. After that, a Higher Self has huge numbers of other levels and the shades of difference each is experiencing.

In the Advanced and Very Advanced stages, loop-breaking is occurring almost constantly. It is the battle between spirit control and body ID. Small and relatively insignificant loops are no real challenge for the Advance levels. Yet they are major concerns for a Low or a Mid level. Your perspective as a Very Advanced is significantly distant from all of your Low incarnations, for example. Loops that wrap a Low level incarnation into body ID control may not exist or be severely weakened for an Advanced.

Major loops, such as religion, sexuality, physical family, giving one’s power away, etc, are all features for the Advanced levels to deal with. The increased Advanced spirituality, even if misguided, is needed to kick the spirit into gear in order to whip the body ID down and, eventually, out. Note that spirituality is not religion. Religion is a body ID trap, although religion tries to hijack the term ‘spirituality’ as its own. Religion is a major body ID loop to break due to being intertwined with the physical body family/genetic ID.

Sexuality is another huge loop that is very difficult to break. As per previous M5 segments, the Game will do its utmost to prevent same gender romance. Romance is the key, not just physical sex. Sex (same gender) alone, at best, creates a limited link. Sex plus emotion/affection completes the link of spirits when both are of the same gender. For Game-demanded, heterosexual links, shorting out of spirit is the prime concern. Spirit cannot be shorted out when the intimate connection is same gender. It must be opposite gender.

With Brokeback Mountain as such an important mainstream film expanding in the U.S., people finally get to see a side of gay sexuality and romance that one would never see in silly television programs like Will & Grace. There are several pre-Graduate Higher Selves involved with this project and I am glad they are. This film demonstrates how the sexual loop is struggled with between these particular people and the fight to break it as intense.

One must endure the scream of body ID commands in overdrive with the sexuality loop more than with any other. This, again, is because of the need to defeat the loop and the Game on a personal level. You will eventually succeed with your Final and to varying degrees in other significant incarnations. It is a group effort on the part of all your Advanced incarnations. This is why the majority of simultaneous path incarnates spend most of their Advanced incarnations as bisexual, the transition phase to the breaking of that insidious loop. Remember too that mainstream gay identity is not the omega of the experience. It is moving beyond that to find the level you seek. Mainstream gay identity is a lower experience in the breaking of the sexuality loop.

Some Higher Selves find it easier to break the sexuality loop with their incarnations than other loops, like religion or physical family. Challenges vary as do Higher Self needs. It’s all part of individual path focus.

One should not feel defeated or berated by not being able to overcome any experiential loop during their current incarnation. It is accomplished in stages and through many incarnations. Your current one may be the one to finally bring a major loop into submission and breakage. But if not, you are contributing to that incarnation of yours elsewhere in our Earther ‘time line’ that does succeed.

What you should be looking for, as self-evidence that any experiential loop is broken, is that you are in no way enticed to engage in the activities of that loop. You can look at those activities and wonder how you ever got suckered into them. It is all part of your learning phases in the Game. You will know the sexuality loop is broken (not just subdued) when you find the opposite gender as sexually undesirable and you look at the same gender as Game players look at the opposite one. It will come when it is time for you according to your Higher Self’s plan. You will know the religion loop is broken (not just subdued) when you can view religion as the sham it is and external deities are amusing to you.

I know that some points are repeated in here, but they are major concepts for you to bear in mind and emails are requesting more advice. Be who you are in your current incarnation. Don’t worry about others who are on a differently perceived level. Respect individuality and try to practice the Law of Allowance. The frustrations you feel are either of the spirit or of the body. As you progress, you will be able to discern what the source of the frustration is. If it is body, it will be to reinforce that particular loop with guilt or a related control sensation. If it is the spirit, encourage more and deeper activity to help you in breaking the loop you are working on. Review the segment written about the whisperings of conscience. Above all, do what you can do and do not berate yourself for not being able to do what you cannot at this time. Today you may not be able to move forward, but tomorrow you may. Trust in your Higher Self.