Obstacles Caused by Faulty Decisions: Part II 

Matrix 5 Excerpt 

In this segment, I will give you some examples of correct fork-in-your-path decisions. 

This example is common to EVERY Higher Self incarnation SEVERAL times in your TOTAL incarnational cycle: ‘the happy marriage’. These are the all-too-rare today marriages of 2 people that ‘remain happy with each other for the entire marriage’ (till death do we part stuff). They have some kids who are a credit to their incarnational level. It's the Ozzie & Harriet type of situation of the early half of the last century. You have (out of your hundreds & hundreds of incarnations) numerous versions of this as part of your progression cycle and it fits the area/time period you are in. This is common in the low and mid level incarnations. You basically obey your Orion DNA commands to breed and your Higher Self has much to learn from the experiences here. This is correct for you AT THIS TIME in your Path. 

Once you've remained in this loop numerous times, it becomes comfortable and the spirit will begin to break the cycle. Incarnations become (usually unconsciously) bored with this mold of conformity and problems start, due to progression and straining to grow in the spirit. The search for the 'ideal' marriage of other incarnations, after you have outgrown the spiritual need for this bondage, results in divorces and multiple marriages. Other problems occur as bitter fruits of the dead incarnational experiential loop - sneaking around with others, escapist tendencies, power plays between partners and so on. You CANNOT go backward. You MUST progress.

These problems will continue AND increase until the spirit learns to overpower the body's DNA commands for marriage and breeding to serve the alien overlords. Breaking the experiential loop needs courage and will, as it very well may be difficult. IF you are true to yourself, you do alter your path regardless of the multitude of controls/power plays the partner (ball & chain) will attempt to use to hold you back. Love does NOT mean control. IF both partners are ready to advance, the divorce will be amicable. IF one is moving ahead spiritually and the other is stuck in their own loop not ready to move on, then you must fight for your soul. You WILL win and you will learn powerful lessons if your spirit has decided 'enough is enough'. The sad part is that when someone breaks this pattern, the loop is not totally broken until the incarnation demonstrates that shim does not need to repeat the cycle by finding a new opposite gender, which will bring other problems and the loop continues.

In Advanced levels, the need to be in the company of like-minded people increases with the rate of Advancement. In the VERY Advanced levels, you have little tolerance to be surrounded by anyone not moving similarly to you and sex (with others) for sex alone loses its luster rapidly. Nearing the end of the Earther incarnational cycle, you shun marriage but MAY decide to live with someone who is moving similarly as you are. What happens in the Final Incarnation (Awakened) will be made known to you when you reach that stage in whatever 'time period' YOUR Final Incarnation is residing.

Other examples of experiential loops that must be experienced AND be broken are: religion, patriotism, nationalism, genderism, Lightsider clinging, Darksider clinging, racism and many more. These messages give you many things to consider as to how they may touch YOUR incarnational life.