Obstacles Caused by Faulty Decisions 

Matrix 5 Excerpt 

I've discussed those life-changing 'forks in the road' that we all come to, several times in our incarnational lives, in other M5 materials. Depending on which of the roads you CHOOSE, a series of experiences and consequences will descend on you.

These major decisions in your life are well marked and can be of a myriad of options. 

Here are just a few:
-Should I get married
-Should I move in with this person
-Should I go to college
-Should I enter the military
-Should I get a divorce
-Should I trust in myself
-Should I accept this job
-Should I move
-Should I quit my job
-Should I .....

By these choices I DON'T mean simple choices like, 'should I have chicken or steak'. The choices I DO mean will cause your life to take on a new track with all the accompanying experiences.

The more Advanced you become, the more important your decisions will be. It MAY be necessary, for example, to go to college or to join the military because you will meet someone critical to your Path. BUT, if you decide not to do something, other experiences and consequences will be attracted to you.

So, how do you know if you made the right choice FOR YOU? If you did, most of your experiences will be of a growing nature and obstacles/negative events will not plague you. I am simplifying this, but if you're here, you should understand what I mean. As I said elsewhere, your Higher Self allows the incarnation to make decisions/choices that do not halt or permanently disable the Plan of experiences your Higher Self requires via that incarnation.

If you made a choice that doesn't suit your main Path, you are peppered with problem/difficulty after problem/difficulty. These can be put to you BY your Higher Self who is attempting to get you to change your life. IF you have Advanced enough spiritually, you will recognize you should be elsewhere/doing something else, etc and make a new decision/choice having learned some valuable lessons from the error. Was the choice wrong for you? Yes AND no. Yes because it was a difficult, cyclical experience that you have had before and DO NOT NEED TO CONTINUE IN EXPERIENCE ANY LONGER. No, if you CHOOSE to stay in this type of loop, giving the body control over the spirit. If you can break the experiential loop, the spirit exerts control over the body. I'm talking mid-Advanced progression levels here.

If you are a low or a mid level incarnation, experiential loops are necessary for experiences and spiritual growth. It's in the Advanced stages that you start breaking these loops. The more Advanced you are, the more loops you conclude your ride on and, hence the fewer loops you will have remaining as you progress in the Very Advanced stages.

So, you've made a decision that is loaded with heavy consequences, numerous problems and you are at a level where you enjoy Matrix 5. That makes you somewhere in the Advanced levels of progression. It is very likely that YOUR Higher Self is peppering you with problems (the ass kick) to try and get you to do something about a situation that you've OUTGROWN and will RETARD your progression in this incarnation.

You have to take these things up with your Higher Self. I'm asked for my opinions on various situations and I give them with the intention that the person can save a LOT of misery. Almost always my advice to these people is totally ignored. They always come back with different versions of 'you were right'. Now, that's ok IF they learn from the experience, make NEW decisions and end the cycle. It tells me they needed the pain to break the experiential cycle. What gets me is when they realize the decision is in error but refuse to break the cycle. They seem to have become addicted to the experiential loop and become the masochist to the sadistic experience.

If they respond with, "I had no choice" or any variation of that, they have not progressed enough to see through that lame excuse. Water the root of the problem with your tears of self pity, as I've said before as well.

Examine your difficult life situations. If they are burdening you with constant problems, break the cycle and take a different fork in YOUR road. Suffering is a Light-sider belief. If you are in a comfortable situation, don't become complacent for progression thrives on changes and I guarantee they will come. Your Higher Self will present you with new forks in the road which indicate it's time for something new. DON'T overanalyze the forks in the road. I remember when I said I was going to relocate here, there & everywhere except one location, yet when I graduated college it was that one location that I wound up in. My Higher Self saw to it and I didn't try to analyze or pro/con the choice. I just did it. If I hadn't made that MAJOR decision, I would not be where I am today. However Final Incarnations are in a class all by themselves.

Once again I counsel you to hobnob with your Higher Self, the real you. Go with the flows and throw off heavily hard experiences. 

Break that loop!